DISCLAIMER: I have not been hacked.
I, Martinette, wrote this blog in sound mind and for the reason of letting the world in on my private struggle with a certain individual.
I am in the process of trying to forgive her, but it's hard when she won't leave me or my family alone.
I will not be deleting this blog entry, and her attempts of trying to get people to report my blog as being hacked is honestly very sad.
Instead of trying to get my blog taken down, I hope she will focus on getting better. The fact is, no one knows this blog is about her unless she has done stuff to them too.
Her attempts of trying to redeem herself are just making her look more guilty.
I'm not going to name and shame her even though it would be very easy. I'm being the bigger person here.
The blog will stay up.
I hope she can move on and leave my family alone for good.
God bless.
Here is the blog entry:
I, Martinette, wrote this blog in sound mind and for the reason of letting the world in on my private struggle with a certain individual.
I am in the process of trying to forgive her, but it's hard when she won't leave me or my family alone.
I will not be deleting this blog entry, and her attempts of trying to get people to report my blog as being hacked is honestly very sad.
Instead of trying to get my blog taken down, I hope she will focus on getting better. The fact is, no one knows this blog is about her unless she has done stuff to them too.
Her attempts of trying to redeem herself are just making her look more guilty.
I'm not going to name and shame her even though it would be very easy. I'm being the bigger person here.
The blog will stay up.
I hope she can move on and leave my family alone for good.
God bless.
Here is the blog entry:
I wouldn't normally do something like this but I've reached the end of my rope.
For almost the entirety of this year, my family has been harassed by a certain individual.
Some of you may know her.
She met my little brother Philip a few years ago and they began a friendship, mostly online and through text messaging as far as I know.
I make it a point not to stay involved in my little brother's business so I don't know the ins and outs of his friendship with her.
I do know that she was a year 13 when Lyndon was a Year 7. Lyndon and I are both 25, so you can do the math and work out that she is significantly older than my little brother.
I don't know what happened but things turned ugly.
This girl started acting.... let's just say.... off.
She started writing things on her Facebook saying that Philip was being appropriate with under-age girls, dragging his name through the dirt. Saying mean things about him that have no basis.
At this point Philip blocked her on social media and TRIED to cease all contact with her.
But this girl wouldn't give up that easily.
She started sending Philip things in the mail. Weird things. A troll doll and dvd's, really weird stuff.
A condom, random articles, girls underwear.
My mum has informed me that she now signs the names of other friends of Philip.
Philip receives things in the mail from this girl up to three times per week.
My mum has stopped giving this mail to Philip. She opens it herself and disposes of the cruel letters that blame Philip for things he hasn't done, death threats and other things of that nature.
My parents have, as you can imagine, grown very tired of this ordeal.
This girl also calls Philip from different phone numbers, because he blocked her number around the same time he blocked her from social media.
She has created up to six different Facebook profiles and uses them to contact Philip, myself, my sister-in-law, Lyndon, and other members of my family.
The transcript below is a direct copy of a conversation I had with this girl.
I have removed her name, not to protect her, but to protect my own family and my own reputation.
I am not here to condemn her or judge her, I just want her to stop.
This is not a witch hunt.
The past year has been incredibly hard for my whole family.
This girl has inconvenienced all of us, including me.
She comments on my music page, and this very blog, so I know she will read this.
Please stop. I know that you are unwell but that doesn't give you the right to drag my brother's name through the dirt.
You slander him on the internet, write false things about him.
He never did anything to you to deserve this treatment.
Anyone who knows me knows that my relationship with Philip is strained at best, but I still love him and feel that I need to do everything I can to protect him.
This is not right.
Please get help.
I am doing this to bring everything into the light.
Darkness has no power in the light, so I am bringing everything forward.
Philip is the victim here and he needs support.
This girl is essentially ruining his life and I just want it to stop.
Below is the conversation I had with this girl, if you have any advice or if you know the girl I'm talking about and have any information or evidence about her, please contact me.
Please note: Anna Williams is one of her fake Facebook profiles.
*Just to clarify:
Philip spent New Years with this girl and she bought herself flowers and a few other things, and also paid for petrol and food for the two of them. The $200 she refers to is the money to cover these costs.
Below is a copy of a letter she sent Philip outlining the things she wants money for.
1. the aftershave wasn't even for Philip
2. the roses she bought for herself
3. the troll doll she bought for herself and then sent to Philip in the mail, the asked for it back, he refused and didn't give her a response.
Below is a message she sent to Lyndon a few weeks ago out of the blue.
Lyndon has never tried to engage in a conversation with her like I have:
Please feel free to share this blog around to anyone you think has been targeted by this girl.
Also, your prayers and support would be much appreciated during this time.
This is the first time I have spoken out about this, even though it's been going on for seven months.
I really hope this girl gets help and gets her life back on track.
Her actions show that she clearly isn't well and deserves our sympathy, it's just hard to feel sorry for her when she is making yours and your family's life incredibly difficult :'(
I will feel better once I know she is getting the help she needs.
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