04 September 2016

"Famous" People I've Met





Greetings blog-readers,

Today I am actually taking time OUT OF MY DAY to write this properly.


Usually I write these blogs with the laptop on my lap, or, God help me, with my phone (to be honest I stopped doing that when my entire blog post was deleted).

Today I am sitting my with my laptop on the dining table.

I feel very professional, so hopefully this blog will be well written!

Let's crack into it!



During my 23 short years on this Earth, I have managed to meet a large number of people.
Only a small handful of these people are who you'd consider to be "famous".

In fact, half of them are only "famous" in New Zealand.

Along with a photo and a link to a website, I may also be able to link you to a video of them, just so you can get an idea of who they are.

I will rank my "famous" persons from their level of famousness, the least famous going first, and the most famous appearing last.

You may be completely unimpressed with this list, and for that, I say "Oh well! I tried"


I never said they were famous-famous, I said they were "famous".



Right, here we go!






7. Julia Wright








Julia was the presenter of Sticky TV back when I watched it (quite awhile ago now).
I didn't actually meet her... She came into the Cafe and bought food from me!!!!!!

Did you know she's married with a baby?!!?!
I saw both her husband and her baby.

Good on her!

This list of people has not started well...





6. Graeme Downes:





The Verlaines History:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pdqxUNs5REI

The Verlaines Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Verlaines



If you attend Otago University and you've done any sort of music paper, then you've probably met Dr. Graeme Downes.
I'm sure a lot of people reading this know him better than I ever will.


I met him when I was in Second or Third Year at University. I did an English paper called: Music and Poetry.
It was awesome!
Dr. Downes took us through all the music stuff, I didn't know until later that he was the lead singer of the Dunedin band: The Verlaines.

I never talked to him one on one, I said a few words during class, but he didn't know me by name or anything.

After I found out about The Verlaines, I always smiled to myself when I saw him smoking outside the Music department building. I would walk past him often on my way home from class. It was cool knowing I'd sort of met someone famous.
He is sort of famous.





5. Rory McKenna, Brock Ashby:







Moorhouse : Take A Picture (Brock and Rory are the first two you see)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xd8hwdNLsg

Moorhouse Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moorhouse_(band)



I met Rory and Brock two years ago when I volunteered at the Dunedin 'Get Smart' Conference.
At the time I was completing my Honours Year at University but I decided to go all in with volunteering anyway.
I was put in charge of the Volunteers Lounge, so I had to make sure all the Conference volunteers were well looked after and that the Lounge that was especially for them was always well stoked with food and drink.
I was also in charge of getting lunch and dinner brought to the Lounge and serving it up.

Brock and Rory were in the Get Smart worship team (yes they were Christian, unsure if they still are)
I met them and talked to them throughout the time that the conference was on.
They seemed like pretty nice guys, apart from the fact they were a little stuck-up at times.

At one point they walked into the Lounge and me and a bunch of other people were sitting around and singing acapella, just for fun. They seemed to be put off by this.
Who knows why?

I have since seen them on the NZ X Factor and it cracked me up to see how they are now "famous" in New Zealand.
I hope they are still following Jesus!

Rory and I are friends on Facebook.

He probably wouldn't recognize me if I saw him again.







4. Nellie & Elza Jenkins







iD Fashion Insider meets Top Model Twins: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KyUYcNOSc_k


Meeting Nellie and Elza was one of my more random meetings.
Much like Graeme Downes, if you live in Dunedin, (and went to Otago Girls High School like my friend Leesa), you probably know these girls.

I met Nellie and Elza when I was in First Year.
My high school art teacher took me to their house for dinner, as she happens to be their aunt.
Nellie and Elza were making the dinner, and they especially chose falafel wrap things, as I was a vegetarian at this point.

I hung out with them for the night, and was told that they were into modelling and things of that nature.
They are really lovely.

I never saw them after that night, but they appeared on 'New Zealand's Next Top Model' which I thought was really funny!!!

They probably wouldn't recognise me if I ever saw them again.






3. Nathan King







Nathan King : Never Too Late
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWgcm6tuDRU

Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nathan_King_(singer-songwriter)


Nathan King is known in New Zealand, mostly.
He was the lead singer of Zed.
You may have heard such songs as: "Renegade Fighter", "Glorifilia", "Tried So Hard To Find Her" etc. etc.
He ended up going solo.

... Bahaha okay. I didn't actually "meet" him.
He played a set at this Christian performing arts thing I went to when I was at school.

It was great though!
And he talked to some people that were surrounding me afterwards.
I was going to go get his autograph but I chickened out.

What a lame story! Hehehe.
If I went to something like that today I'd definitely go talk to him.








2. Gary Morris







Gary Morris : Wind Beneath My Wings
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=95jNxAad2s8

Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gary_Morris



I met Gary before my brother's wedding, as he is good friend's with my sister-in-law's family.
I didn't know til after the wedding that he's kinda famous.
Like. Actually famous.

He wrote that song "Wind Beneath My Wings"
If you're into your 80's ballads then you should have heard it.
If not, you should check out the link above and give it a listen.

I played my song "California" to Gary and he said it was good and I should keep playing.
He also told me if I was ever in Colorado I could come stay at his house. LOL!

He's a cool guy.






1. David Bain









David Bain walks free after Not Guilty verdict:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y64uFyUD4aA

Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Bain



The most controversial person I've met but definitely the best one (people are ALWAYS shocked that I've met him!)
If you don't know who David Bain is, you should follow the link above to his Wikipedia page.

I met him when I was finished with high school and just about to go to University.
David came round to my parents house, he had met and befriended them on a horse trek earlier that year.

When I met him I didn't know who he was or that there was so much controversy surrounding him.

He seemed like a genuinely nice guy, although he did make fun of me for being a vegetarian (but who hasn't?!)
Hahaha.

In all seriousness though, I don't think he did it.

Not after meeting him.

I always tell people that.

Before Lyndon and I went out he ATTACKED me (verbally) because he's convinced David is guilty.

But I'm allowed to think he isn't.
It's my opinon.

We may never find out what happened, but I had afternoon tea with the guy, and from that meeting, I think he's an okay guy.







This blog has taken me hours to write.

I hope it's been an interesting read.


Until next time :)

28 August 2016

For Emil On His Birthday


Hello blog,

I have a few things I wanted to write about this month but since it is the birthday of one of my good friends and cousin, I thought I would finally write about him.

He got married back in June, and though I was a bridesmaid,  I did not ask to make a speech.

What follows is kind of what I would have said,  had I made a speech.



------//--------//---------//--------//------


Emil and I haven't always been close,  in fact,  it wasn't until he moved to Dunedin some six years ago that we actually started spending much time together.

It started out slow, and was brought on mainly by my feeling sorry for him because he didn't have many friends and spent almost all his time in the university computer suite, watching TV shows online.

We started to have lunch together most days, and it got to the point where we were hanging out so often and one of us would go to text the other about having lunch,  and a text would come throughfrom that person simply saying: "Lunch?".


I don't know exactly what it was but we just got on well.  After knowing each other for most of our lives,  we were actually proper friends.

I found Emil easy to talk to and there was never any underlying tension like you can get with other friends.  I think that came from also being family.

Emil was,  and still is,  more like a brother than a cousin.  Only I get on better with him than my brothers.


As the years went by,  Emil helped me navigate my different relationship dramas.  He was the first person to tell me that a guy I liked wasn't up to standard.  And to be honest,  he was right 100% of the time.

He approved of Lyndon instantly,  and hey!  Look who I'm married to now?!


Most importantly,  after my disastrous not-dating-but-sort-of-dating-but-actually-not relationship with one particular fellow,  I asked Emil to refrain from getting a girlfriend until after I had gotten a boyfriend.

I told him that I would not be able to cope with losing my best friend until after I had healed from this previous damaging relationship and found someone else.

I don't know if it was intentional or not but Emil didn't start dating anyone until after Lyndon and I were engaged.

It sounds silly,  but it actually meant a lot.

I was in such a fragile state that having Emil there as my friend meant a lot and helped me a lot in getting better.

I will always be grateful to him for that.


At Emil's wedding,  a few different girls said speeches,  claiming that Emil is their best friend.
With the exception of my cousin,  Mariana (Emil's sister), I would just like to point out that you may all think you are best friends with him,  but the last six years are proof that Emil and I are more than best friends. We are best friends AND family.

#boom. :-P


So as I draw this speech to a close,  I just want to say thank you.

Thanks Emil for being such a good friend to me,  for accompanying me at my graduation,  for being a listening ear, for taking me to the movies and to Starbucks. For coming to my gigs and joining me for countless lunches.  For always making sure I'm okay.
Sometimes we don't tell our friends how great they are,  well here I am telling you how great you are (don't get an even bigger head about it,  okay?)

We have had a lot of great memories including but not limited to that time we went and saw Taylor Swift live!

The last few Christmases have not been the same without you.

Cheers for everything!

Here's hoping your 27th year is the best one yet!

I should also probably add that I am glad you found Aleisha and I'm sure you two will be very happy together and thanks for having me in your wedding.

It's nice to know that whatever happens,  we will always be family.


Over and out.

*drop the mic*



24 July 2016

Harassment



DISCLAIMER: I have not been hacked. 
I, Martinette, wrote this blog in sound mind and for the reason of letting the world in on my private struggle with a certain individual. 

I am in the process of trying to forgive her,  but it's hard when she won't leave me or my family alone.

I will not be deleting this blog entry,  and her attempts of trying to get people to report my blog as being hacked is honestly very sad. 

Instead of trying to get my blog taken down,  I hope she will focus on getting better.  The fact is,  no one knows this blog is about her unless she has done stuff to them too.
Her attempts of trying to redeem herself are just making her look more guilty. 

I'm not going to name and shame her even though it would be very easy. I'm being the bigger person here. 
The blog will stay up. 
I hope she can move on and leave my family alone for good. 

God bless. 





Here is the blog entry:


I wouldn't normally do something like this but I've reached the end of my rope.

For almost the entirety of this year, my family has been harassed by a certain individual.


Some of you may know her.



She met my little brother Philip a few years ago and they began a friendship, mostly online and through text messaging as far as I know.

I make it a point not to stay involved in my little brother's business so I don't know the ins and outs of his friendship with her.

I do know that she was a year 13 when Lyndon was a Year 7. Lyndon and I are both 25, so you can do the math and work out that she is significantly older than my little brother.



I don't know what happened but things turned ugly.


This girl started acting.... let's just say.... off.

She started writing things on her Facebook saying that Philip was being appropriate with under-age girls, dragging his name through the dirt. Saying mean things about him that have no basis.

At this point Philip blocked her on social media and TRIED to cease all contact with her.


But this girl wouldn't give up that easily.



She started sending Philip things in the mail. Weird things. A troll doll and dvd's, really weird stuff.
A condom, random articles, girls underwear.

My mum has informed me that she now signs the names of other friends of Philip.



Philip receives things in the mail from this girl up to three times per week.



My mum has stopped giving this mail to Philip. She opens it herself and disposes of the cruel letters that blame Philip for things he hasn't done, death threats and other things of that nature.


My parents have, as you can imagine, grown very tired of this ordeal.




This girl also calls Philip from different phone numbers, because he blocked her number around the same time he blocked her from social media.


She has created up to six different Facebook profiles and uses them to contact Philip, myself, my sister-in-law, Lyndon, and other members of my family.



The transcript below is a direct copy of a conversation I had with this girl.

I have removed her name, not to protect her, but to protect my own family and my own reputation.



I am not here to condemn her or judge her, I just want her to stop.
This is not a witch hunt.



The past year has been incredibly hard for my whole family.

This girl has inconvenienced all of us, including me.


She comments on my music page, and this very blog, so I know she will read this.


Please stop. I know that you are unwell but that doesn't give you the right to drag my brother's name through the dirt.

You slander him on the internet, write false things about him.

He never did anything to you to deserve this treatment.


Anyone who knows me knows that my relationship with Philip is strained at best, but I still love him and feel that I need to do everything I can to protect him.


This is not right.

Please get help.





I am doing this to bring everything into the light.

Darkness has no power in the light, so I am bringing everything forward.



Philip is the victim here and he needs support.

This girl is essentially ruining his life and I just want it to stop.






Below is the conversation I had with this girl, if you have any advice or if you know the girl I'm talking about and have any information or evidence about her, please contact me.


Please note: Anna Williams is one of her fake Facebook profiles. 





  • Anna Williams
    Anna Williams


    Hi how are you? Im philips new wife your little brother, he married a model in secret what do you think??
  • Thursday

  • ThursYou accepted Anna's request.
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 13:55
    Martinette


    Hello ******. I knew it was you the minute I read your messages. What are you playing at exactly? Why the fixation on my little brother even though he's ignoring you?

    I've talked with *your sister* and if you don't leave Philip alone we will have no choice but to take legal action against you.
  • Thursday
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:49
    Anna Williams


    who is ******?
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:49
    Martinette


    You are
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:49
    Anna Williams


    no im not
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:50
    Martinette


    You're not fooling anyone. We all know it's you, ****
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:50
    Anna Williams


    good book

    I am not ***** have you read it?
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:50
    Martinette


    Why did you go off your medication???
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:50
    Anna Williams


    is about some retarded girl who was caught up in a cult

    and she escaped
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:50
    Martinette


    Can you please leave my brother alone

    I have reported you to Facebook for having a fake account

    And I am going to do it again. Please get help. You really need it and my entire family is concerned for you.
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:52
    Martinette


    Take your medication again, it's a really good idea

    It will get your mind steady again
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:52
    Anna Williams


    i am not on medICAION

    I HAVE CANCER
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:52
    Martinette


    You should be on medication, that is the problem

    I've talked to *your sister* about you

    We are all worried
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:53
    Anna Williams


    I NEED TO HAVE CHEMOTHERAPY BUT CANT AFFORD IT

    SO IM GOING TO DIE
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:54
    Martinette


    You are a liar, ******
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:54
    Anna Williams


    SO ARE YOU
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:54
    Martinette


    And the fact you said you're married to my brother is hilarious
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:54
    Anna Williams


    YOU DID NOT HAVE HAVE HAND FOOT AND MOUTH DISEASE

    AND YOU DID NOT HAVE GLADULAR FEVER AND CHICKEN POX ALL AT ONCE

    I KNOW IT WAS A JOKE THAT I MARRIED HIM
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:55
    Martinette 


    ****** please take your medication
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:55
    Anna Williams


    IM FINE

    GOODBYE LITTLE BITCH
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:55
    Martinette


    We are going to take legal action against you
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:55
    Anna Williams


    DO YOU HAVE YOUR PERIOD
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:55
    Martinette


    If you don't stop sending Philip things in the mail

    I'm serious
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:55
    Anna Williams


    PHILIP SAID YOU ARE ALWAYS A BITCH WHEN YOUR ON YOUR PERIOD
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:56
    Martinette 

    You have a problem and you need help

    Please just get help. We are all worried about you.
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:56
    Anna Williams


    NAH IM GOOD THANKS

    GOD BLESS YOU
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:56
    Martinette


    So you admit that you're ******?
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:56
    Anna Williams


    GO AND TALK TO GOD FIRSE BEFORE JUDGING PEOPLE

    I AM NOT *******
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:57
    Anna Williams


    http://www.randomhouse.co.nz/books/fleur-beale/i-am-not-

  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:57
    Martinette 


    I'm not judging you, dear. But we are going to get the law involved if you continue to harass my family

    You sent my father that letter in the mail

    You have sent Philip things in the mail
  • Anna Williams
    30/06/2016 22:57
    Anna Williams


    what letter?
  • Martinette Greer
    30/06/2016 22:57
    Martinette 


    You need to stop. Please

    Save your money and don't spend it on silly things like this

    You could be doing more meaningful things with your time

    *Your sister* said she'd try to help you but you're still doing the same things as before

    Creating fake Facebook accounts

    Telling lies
  • Today
  • Anna Williams
    11:20
    Anna Williams


    so you have never told a lie?

    don't you know that in God eye one lie is the same as 100?

    not even to protect somebodys feelings?

    eg if you friend looks fat in her jeans you dont tell her you say no you look fine. stop obessessing over your weight

    some people are hurtally honest and that hurts peoples feelings

    so be kind and say kind things to one another

    be kind and have courage #cinderellamovie
  • Martinette Greer
    11:29
    Martinette


    I would like it if you stopped sending things to Philip. Can you please leave him alone?
  • Anna Williams
    11:29
    Anna Williams


    im only allowed to send him letters now its illegal to post anything else and expemsive
  • Martinette Greer
    11:30
    Martinette


    Can you please stop sending him letters? He doesn't want them
  • Anna Williams
    11:30
    Anna Williams


    nope its not illegal to send letters in the mail

    i told him he has to move out of his house if he wants me to stop sending them

    he rang me

    we are planning out trip to afraica

    to run away together

    bye

    have a nice life
  • Martinette Greer
    11:33
    Martinette 


    He wouldn't go to Africa with you

    Why do you keep telling lies?

    He has blocked you from Facebook and doesn't want to talk to you. Why do you lie about this stuff?

    Also it isn't HIS house, it belongs to my parents. We are going to have to get the law involved if you don't stop
  • Today
  • Anna Williams
    22:28
    Anna Williams


    lol haha very funny Martinette

    your always joking around and causing shit so why should I believe a word you say?

    I know you dated tonnes of guys before you went out with Lydnon you little slut you probably werent even a virgin and you prob lied about that in your blog too
  • Anna Williams
    22:37
    Anna Williams


    YOU COULD BE A SWIMSUIT MODEL!!
  • Today
  • Martinette Greer
    08:17
    Martinette 


    Can you please just leave Philip alone? Please?
  • Anna Williams
    08:17
    Anna Williams


    why??

    what damage am i causing?
  • Martinette Greer
    08:18
    Martinette 


    Because you're making his life hard
  • Anna Williams
    08:18
    Anna Williams


    how?

    life is hard when you dont have money
  • Martinette Greer
    08:20
    Martinette


    And all of our lives hard too
  • Anna Williams
    08:20
    Anna Williams


    how?

    whats soo difficult?

    arent you christians?
  • Martinette Greer
    08:20
    Martinette 


    Life is hard when ***** won't leave your little brother alone when he is clearly not interested
  • Anna Williams
    08:20
    Anna Williams


    cant you pray?
  • Martinette Greer
    08:20
    Martinette


    Can't you take your medications again?
  • Anna Williams
    08:21
    Anna Williams


    life is hard when the devil wont leave you alone and sends you constant dick picks and masterbating videos
  • Martinette Greer
    08:21
    Martinette 


    Philip has blocked you and hasn't contacted you in a long time

    So you can't be talking about him
  • Anna Williams
    08:22
    Anna Williams


    already taken my meds

    yep i am

    do you want to see a picture of his dick that he sent me?
  • Martinette Greer
    08:22
    Martinette


    No i don't. Please just stop this

    He has blocked you

    You send him letters

    You call him from different phones

    Clearly he is not the one harassing you
  • Anna Williams
    08:23
    Anna Williams


    yeah i keep changing my money

    he owes me money
  • Martinette Greer
    08:23
    Martinette 


    You need to stop this. Please
  • Anna Williams
    08:23
  • Martinette Greer
    08:23
    Martinette 


    He is not giving you any money

    You need to accept that
  • Anna Williams
    08:23
    Anna Williams


    well he should because he made me feel like a stripper
  • Martinette Greer
    08:23
    Martinette 


    You will not see a cent

    Well he's not going to. I'm sorry but that's the truth

    You should pursue other interests
  • Anna Williams
    08:24
    Anna Williams


    ok then i will keep harrassing him untill he gives me my money back
  • Martinette Greer
    08:24
    Martinette


    He's not giving you money
  • Anna Williams
    08:24
    Anna Williams


    then i wont stip harrassing him
  • Martinette Greer
    08:24
    Martinette


    Sounds like we will have to take legal action then
  • Anna Williams
    08:24
    Anna Williams


    ok then go for it

    get *family friend who's a lawyer* involved
  • Martinette Greer
    08:24
    Martinette


    If he gets a restraining order you will not be allowed to contact him in any way
  • Anna Williams
    08:24
    Anna Williams


    he is cecils best mate and my best mates husbands brother

    just pay the $200
  • Martinette Greer
    08:25
    Martinette


    ****** you don't know everything about our lives

    You need to stop. Please
  • Anna Williams
    08:25
    Anna Williams


    most of your lives i know about

    ruby thiks that philip is a dick
  • Martinette Greer
    08:25
    Martinette


    Well i know that Philip has blocked you so you can't be getting more information from him
  • Anna Williams
    08:26
    Anna Williams


    and terewai thinks he is a tool
  • Martinette Greer
    08:26
    Martinette 


    That's wonderful
  • Anna Williams
    08:26
    Anna Williams


    yep it is
  • Martinette Greer
    08:26
    Martinette 


    Is the reason you keep harassing him really just to get your money back?
  • Anna Williams
    08:26
    Anna Williams


    so im not the only one who thinks that he is a spoilt brat with issues
  • Martinette Greer
    08:26
    Martinette 


    Why did you say you're running off to Africa when that is a lie?
  • Anna Williams
    08:26
  • Martinette Greer
    08:27
  • Anna Williams
    08:27
    Anna Williams


    ok then i guess we are running away to africa
  • Martinette Greer
    08:27
    Martinette 


    no you aren't
  • Anna Williams
    08:28
    Anna Williams


    i might one day to get away from you
  • Martinette Greer
    08:29
    Martinette 


    i'm not going to discuss this with you any further. i've gotten what i wanted so i'm going to go now. Please just consider leaving Philip alone. We are going to have to take legal action against you and i'm going to publish this entire conversation as proof that you are out to get him




*Just to clarify:

Philip spent New Years with this girl and she bought herself flowers and a few other things, and also paid for petrol and food for the two of them. The $200 she refers to is the money to cover these costs.
Below is a copy of a letter she sent Philip outlining the things she wants money for.

1. the aftershave wasn't even for Philip
2. the roses she bought for herself
3. the troll doll she bought for herself and then sent to Philip in the mail, the asked for it back, he refused and didn't give her a response.





Below is a message she sent to Lyndon a few weeks ago out of the blue.
Lyndon has never tried to engage in a conversation with her like I have:








Please feel free to share this blog around to anyone you think has been targeted by this girl.

Also, your prayers and support would be much appreciated during this time.


This is the first time I have spoken out about this, even though it's been going on for seven months.




I really hope this girl gets help and gets her life back on track.

Her actions show that she clearly isn't well and deserves our sympathy, it's just hard to feel sorry for her when she is making yours and your family's life incredibly difficult :'(

I will feel better once I know she is getting the help she needs.